Thursday, August 18, 2011

It's OK ...


After whining for the entirety of my last post, I surfed the blogosphere a bit (still haven't packed, worked out, or napped..) and found this fun link-up @Amber's blog. What a great way to feel a little better about the way I'm spending my Thursday. 
Its Ok Thursdays



This Thursday, at least for me, it's ok ...

- To go a day without Make-up. Especially in the summer, a tan is a girl's best foundation!

- To pretend that country stud is singing just to you ;) 

- To write trivial blog posts just for fun. Sometimes your brain needs a break. 

- To go to Target for the sole reason of buying your boyfriend new undershirts. Just because you have a coupon. 

- And to be giddily excited to give them to him. 

- That new metallic Sharpies were the highlight of your week.

- To not be at the beach on a *surprisingly* sunny day with no other concrete plans. *sigh* that was really hard to say. 

- To not answer a phone call because it was "charging upstairs..." 

- To eat a pork roll and egg sandwich two hours after your bowl of greek yogurt.  Girlfriend can't be healthy all the time. Jersey girls need their Pork Roll! 

- To totally feel like you're scamming on Glamour's "Hey, it's OK..." column because, hey, that's what makes Glamour your favorite Magazine - flatter yourself, Glam. 



Lazy Day Confessional

It was raining when I woke up this morning. 

Now the grey skies have surrendered to partially sunny ones, but I'm mentally still in a rainy day.  I anticipated gloominess for today late last night, and accepted the fact that I wouldn't be driving to the beach. I decided I would be productive for the first half of my morning - get my oil changed, pack for school, go shopping, etc. - and then rent a movie to watch on the couch with my sister, a lifeguard who would be off from work due to inclement weather.

Well. Around 10:45 the sun came out and ruined all of my lazy plans.  At 11:00 I agreed to bring my sister to work and at 12:00 my mom, as my car was left at the dealership and I had to borrow Mom's. By 12:05 the sun was shining strongly and the few rays my arms absorbed through the sunroof just wasn't enough. I yearned for the beach. Actually, the beach called to me. I could feel it. 

At 12:06 I had to make a very mature choice. I decided it was border-line too late to get my bathing suit and drive DTS; my time would be better spent being productive at home. Plus, I had no convertible to drive.

Well. Here I am, depressed because the sun is teasing me through the window panes while the rain left me with scars of lethargy; hence here I lay on my couch watching Country Music Videos feeling sorry for myself.  I fear for the well-being of my tan (only three days until I return to MD) yet can't stop watching Josh Turner on my TV Screen.  

For your entertainment, the most perfect male specimen to ever walk this earth:

If I can ever stop watching my new Hunky Southern Obsession I am going to pack and go to the gym before I have to pick my sister up.  Or I'll nap. 

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

What I'm Loving Wednesday

I'm Loving....


... this beautiful beach day. Perfect weather for bronzing, plus C made a surprise visit to the beach to see me on his short lunch break. The only thing better than being at the beach is being at the beach with a handsome boy! 



... the hot, hot yoga instructor who taught class tonight ;) I can dig a boy who can do a full Scorpion. And who can make me feel like I just went through bootcamp after just an hour and fifteen minutes of yoga. This girl is going to be sorrreee tomorrow! Ohm Ohm Ohm 


... Back-to-School Shopping! I was absolutely giddy coming home from my Target run with a new planner, folder, binder, notebook (all of the above color coordinated of course,) pens, and metallic sharpies. #NerdAlert.
Not to mention, tomorrow is supposed to be a rainy day, so if I can't go to the beach, I'm going to drive myself over to the outlets for some teacher clothes. Woot woot!


... All my new make up! C's momma periodically gets a box full of FREE merchandise from the Loreal factory store, and then I get to pick through and take whatever I want. I didn't walk away with my best goody bag of all time, but pretty darn good. Thanks Mrs. L!
A few of my goodies:

-Essie Nail Polish in Virgin Orchid


-Kiehls Mascara in Black


-Revlon Colorstay Eyeliner in Cocoa 


... and more. The items I get from her aren't always what I typically use, but hey, they're free... so why not give 'em a try? 

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Ten on Tuesday

1. What do you do for a living?
Technically, I 'm a full time daughter - thanks for spoiling me Mom and Dad ;)
I'm also a full time student, with part time jobs as After-Care teacher/Teacher's Aide in a mixed-age preschool classroom, a Group Fitness (Aerobics) Instructor and a freelancing babysitter. I spend most hours working at the preschool, and I love it. 
This is my final year at UMD and then I will hopefully be able to answer this question with "Teach." As in, real life kick-ass Elementary School Teacher. Heck yeah. 
2. What’s your favorite thing about your job?
The kids, of course. I love that they can be crying throwing a temper tantrum because you made them clean up their mess one minute, but then run to you with their little arms wide open telling you "I dove you Ms. Alensis" the next.  Their pure innocence makes them the most loving little beings in the world.  I also love the way they say whatever comes to their minds. I've never met anyone more honest than a four year old. 
The proximity to my apartment is quite nice too. It's wonderful that the school is on campus, so I don't even have to drive!
Additionally, without this job I don't know what I would blog about half the time.  This two week time period where I am away from the CYC has left me feeling unfunny, wordless, and pretty much depressed.  ... Unemployment is bad for my blogging. 
3. What’s your least favorite thing about your job?
Boogies. 
4. If you weren’t a ____________, what would you be?
I've always said if I didn't so passionately want to be a teacher I would go on to law school. 
Or be a Real Housewife of New Jersey. Either or. 
5. What is something that you would love to get paid for that you think no one would ever pay you for?
I used to think working out - but then I got a job as a fitness instructor.
Also, professional beach-goer would be nice. If I could get paid for every hour sat on the sand I would be one happy girl. 
6. If you could have any job for exactly one day, what would it be?
I'd be the Governor of New Jersey and change some of the legislation regarding Education just in time for me to get a real job! 
7. If you had to do manual labor, what would you do?
Are you kidding? I do manual labor all the time ... some of those 4 year olds are the size of 6 year olds! They're heavy man! Have you ever played "Tag" through a playground for an hour straight? Or pushed 5 year olds on a tire swing? Holy moly sometimes I go home sore!
8. What is something you were forced to learn in high school that was supposed to be super important, but you never actually use?
How about Algebra 2 in it's entirety? 
9. Who was your favorite boss?  Why?
I don't know if she is technically my "boss" but the woman who has hired me to babysit/nanny her children since I was 16 is the sweetest woman alive. She used to be my neighbor and now that she has moved I miss her as much as I miss the kids! 
10. Where would you rather work: Dunder Mifflin Paper Company (The Office), Wernham Hogg Paper Company (The Office, UK), or Initech (Office Space)?
I've never seen The Office, UK so I really have no say in that.  I think Initech would be absolutely miserable, even more miserable than waitressing at a Fridays, so that leaves Dunder Mifflin Paper Company - hopefully Michael could give me a good laugh.  

Monday, August 15, 2011

Weekend Recap - We Went "Out Last Night"

"Well the fact that I'm still breathing 
Means that I must have survived 
And that I'll live to go out with 
My friends again tonight"

-Kenny Chesney, Out Last Night

My friends and I had quite an eventful weekend, and needless to say, when Kenny sang this song live we all went crazy - dancing, laughing and singing together front row (of the 3rd tier) at Giants Stadium. 


Friday morning began with a sunny top-down drive Parkway South. The weather was so gorgeously humidity-less and cool it didn't even hit 80 by 9am! Would you believe me if I told you I actually turned the heat on at my feet because it felt COLD driving with the top down? True story.

My bff and I spent allllll day bronzing on 13th ave and by 3:30 I was crispy enough to exit the beach and begin prepping myself for Djais Happy Hour - the hour I've been waiting for for 21 years. Happy hour turned into a very Happy Five and a Half Hours, and we turned in early(ish?) to get some (debatable) sleep. My feet were covered in DJais grime and my fist was all pumped out, but I'll admit it was still hard to leave that place when my friends proclaimed it time to go. 


We were all in agreement that we needed a good night's sleep (although it never happened) because we would be tailgating in the heat of Parking Lot J at the New Giants Stadium for the much anticipated Kenny Chesney Concert. 

By 11am, we were strategically parked (16 of us, in 3 cars all of which were double parked for supreme tailgate positioning.) 

By 6pm we were multiple cases of beer in, four rounds of grilling finished and two hour late for the concert. We made it in just in time for Zac Brown Band's introduction... which was phenomenal by the way.  Zac Brown Band was honestly amazing. I think I was more impressed with them than Kenny... musically speaking, of course.  KC's stage presence is undeniably energizing and entertaining, and let's face it, he's beyond eye candy. I basically swooned every time he wiggled his hips or the camera got a close up of his babyface. My eyes liked Kenny the best, but my ears loved Zac. 

There were so many great highlights about this concert:
- The guest appearances (Nick Swisher <3, Rex Ryan, Minka Kelly ... to name a few)
- Singing Boys of Fall ... I may have shed a tear watching our boys embrace during this one. I wish C could have been there.
- KC's tight jeans
- Uncle Kracker, Billy Currington AND ZacBrownBand coming back on stage to perform with Kenny
-Etc, etc. 





I didn't get home until well after midnight and I was overly exhausted, achy, cranky when I had to wake up at 7:00 the next morning ... but the concert was well worth it. 

Sunday I drove 45 minutes in a monsoon to C's school, a trip that is usually a much safer 30 minute ride. Once I got there, however, we had a lovely breakfast and of course I didn't mind the rain, nor it being so early.   I miss that boy; I've said it before, and I'll say it again... I love me some football but I can not WAIT until the college season is over. For now, I'll stop complaining and be thankful for the hour and a half I got to spend with him on a rainy Sunday morning :) 

And now it's Monday, my body is still recovering but I have to ignore my aches and be productive because tomorrow starts serious preparations for Student Teaching. Ah! Where did summer go?!!!!! 

Movie Review Monday - The Help


I am always fearful of adaptations. I never watch a movie before first reading the novel, and The Help was no exception.  

Kathryn Sockett's novel was the first of many I read at the beginning of this summer, and no novel since then has compared. I fell in love with the characters instantly and despite its 400+ page length, I could have followed the story forever.  

When I heard Hollywood was making an adaptation I was nervous because it's rare they ever do the original any justice.  

Some may disagree, but I thought the movie was equal to, if not better than, the novel.  Let me start by giving my opinion on the minimal alterations made to the film that could be seen as slight downgrades from the book:

While the acting was superb, I think the movie downplayed some important attributes of some critical characters. For example, the ruthless, brazen, never-holds-anything-back, Minnie, who convicts the Terrible Awful wasn't as terrifying as she was in the novel.  Octavia Spencer played Minnie and was phenomenal; she was funny, compassionate and accurately demonstrated the many layers of Minnie. However, I think it was the writing for the film (not the acting) that left out some of shameless defiance in Minnie's actions that were ever-present and blatantly obvious in the novel.  

Aibileen, played by Viola Davis (who by the way reminded me of an Oprah Winfrey-cousin, perhaps?), was level-headed and soft-spoken just like I imagined her in the book. However, she was the narrator of the film; the book had no single narrator but was rather dictated by chapters defined by the name of that character's perspective.  I think that's what I liked about the novel so much-- getting three completely different views, three completely different sequence of events.  

Skeeter, the third of three narrators in the book, was played by Emma Stone. Again, the acting was fantastic, but I think they made her appear too put-together for the film. The novel made her seem much more disheveled and criticized her unruly hair multiple times, while Stone's hair was nothing less than enviable the entire two and a half hours of film.  ;)

Skeeter's mother was entirely too forgivable.  The novel made her seem cold and disapproving of her daughter - qualities so established that even sympathy from her terminal Cancer could not erase. Mrs. Phelan was one-hundred percent agreeable for ninety percent of the movie.  Similarly, Stuart, Skeeter's unexpected romance, was also too forgivable, and played a much less significant role in the film than in the novel (not that it made much of a difference.) 

With that being said, the positives very much so outweigh the negatives in this film...



It was long, but the novel was longer. The acting was award-worthy. The scenery and costumes for a 1964 Mississippi setting were impeccable. 

I've been debating whether or not I want to make this comparison or not all day, and I think I am going to take the risk and say it...

The Help tendered entertainment similar to that of Steel Magnolias.

For those of you that know me, Steel Magnolias is my all-time favorite movie ever, ever, ever. Even thinking about putting a movie in its same category is border-line unthinkable.  

But I'll say it, and I'll stick by it.  Because the sisterly bond between three unlikely women was undeniably reminiscent of the strong friendship between Ousier, M'Lynn and Clairee (Spencer's portrayal of Minnie was cunningly and starkly humorous, with a mean edge and yet a soft spot an audience can't help but fall in love with - Ousier's role exactly.) Southern values were in check, and then again strongly challenged. We were faced with issues of romance, illness, friendships and trust. 

"Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion." -Truvy Jones
And laughter most certainly followed (a ton of) tears in the film version of The Help. 

I think the reason I suggest the movie might be slightly better than the novel -which I'll admit is beyond rare- is because it invoked more intense emotions.  It was easier to connect with the colored Maid characters because the film was more concentrated on their story instead of Skeeter's personal life. I barely needed a tissue during my beach read of the novel, but the sleeves of my yellow sweatshirt were thoroughly mascara stained by the end of the film viewing. 

And there you have it, a 5 out of 5 stars in the Maggie Y movie review.

So if you haven't yet, please do yourself a favor and go see The Help. (But only if you've already read the book.)

Friday, August 12, 2011

Girl with The Dragon Tattoo

Every time I go to type the title of this Stieg Larsson novel my mind moves faster than my fingers and I end up typing "Girl with the Dragoo."


"The Girl .." Trilogy by the recently deceased Larsson, including "The Girl Who Played with Fire" and "The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest," has gotten a lot of media attention. The popular press talk about the novels are what got me interested in picking one up for myself.


At the beginning of "The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo" (I had to retype that. Twice.) I was not pleased with my choice of reading it. It was slow moving and the Swedish nouns had me rereading various paragraphs to get names straight.  There are so many characters introduced at the beginning that it's hard to decipher what is important and what is trivial. I was unsure where the incongruous character developments would take me, and when, if, a plot would be defined.


Around the 100th page things started to get interesting. Very interesting. Not exactly explicitly clear, but enthralling nonetheless.  


By the 200th page, I was officially hooked. The murder mystery that unraveled was mesmerizing and if it weren't for the horror-movie-esque scary scenes I would never have never put it down. (Yes, I'm a wimp who can't be frightened prior to bedtime.) 


Larsson successfully combined mystery, corruption, financial burdens, family drama, political tensions and psychological thrills to make one electrifying novel that will leave you dying to read more.  


I can't wait to get my hands on the next book in the trilogy where hopefully the anti-social tattooed prodigy of a main characer, Lisbeth Salander, will solve more mysteries and kick more ass.  


It gets only 4 stars in the Maggie Y critical review due to sporadic yet minimal spurts of boredom.

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